Some say women are born with inherited value, but men have to create value for themselves! Reality hits men way harder than women. While many average women expect high-value men, average men understand where they fall in the hierarchy. High-value men sit at the top of the social pyramid – and again, we’re talking about high-value skills and attributes here – not a person’s intrinsic value as a human being.
Out of all men, they are the ones that have achieved the highest success and recognition in life. They get to live life by very different rules, as many women are interested in them, and many other men want to be in their circle. By the end of this video you will have a clear understanding if you are one of them – or at least know where you need to be referred to as one. Here are: 15 Signs of a High-Value Man. If you don’t feel like reading the article here’s the video version:
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Top 10-5% in the social hierarchy ladder
The simplest metric is earnings. High-Value men are in the top 10% of earners, they earn 6 figures or more. That translates to over $15,000 per month, every month, just to get into the top 10%. In order to make it in the top 1% of earners, you’d need to be consistently bringing home over $70,000 per month and with inflation changing the dynamic like crazy, that number is only going up. High-value men are able to do it over and over again. Here is the
Everyone can have a good year or a good season, maybe even get lucky for a while, but high-value men are high value consistently. The really high-value men- the ones making up the 1% of all men– have earned over 1 million dollars per year for over 3 years. And they will earn that for the next 3. Just based on income statistics alone: There are substantially fewer high-value men than there are beautiful women!
The kind of men that usually end up being at this level of earnings are hyper-determined, and hyper-focused and have traded at least 1 decade of their lives for their pursuit of success. For years they’ve had little to no social life because they were fully focused on their career. Now that they’ve made it, they can truly enjoy the spoils of their work.
Almost all women want a high-value man because of the lifestyle they can provide, which makes him a scarce resource in high demand. Because of his obsessive personality needed to get to the top, high-value men almost never settle for mediocrity in any other parts of their lives.
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Someone who has transformed his life and is able to continuously do it based on choice
Do you know how other men wish their lives were different? High-value men have the power, the skills, the mindset and the understanding of what it takes to do it on demand. His life is proof of that. High-value men are men who – despite starting alongside everybody else – have managed through sheer dedication to detach themselves from the rest and climb to the top. Low-value men think that having pictures with cars, sleeping with a lot of women and making a lot of money is what makes you high value. That’s not it boys. High value is determined by what you’re capable of and the ability to change reality to fit your goals.
You’re looking at the outcome, not the cause. You can’t fake it till you make it when it comes to being a high-value man! Integrity plays a big role in this as it stops the bullshit. High-value men don’t need to pretend or say they are high value. This public perception is a byproduct of their main focus, not the other way around. This puts them in a position of control over their lives. Speaking of control:
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In control of his own time
High-value men prioritise freedom and time is the most valuable asset you have. This is why: It doesn’t matter if you drive a Mercedes if you drive it on your way to your 9-5 job and other people tell you when to show up and what to wear. That’s not freedom, you’re not free. You can be a high earner and not be a high-value man because you don’t own your life. Someone else does. This concept is called: The golden handcuffs. The money is too good so you’re trading your time and freedom for it.
It takes several years before you realise you’ve made a bad trade. This is why high-value men are in most cases older. You can’t be a high-value man in your 20s because you haven’t been through enough real life to acquire wisdom, no matter how many videos you’ve watched.
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Maxed-out Stats.
High-value men are exceptional in at least 1 field which is so great, nob+65+ody cares about the rest. Stephen Hawking got married and even had a few affairs despite not being able to talk, walk or move. That’s the power of maxing out 1 of your stats. If you max out any of your stats, you don’t even have to be one of the highest earners to qualify as a high-value man, because it will open up your life to greatness.
Max out persuasion and you become a politician with political power. Max out your ability to entertain and you become a famous artist. Once you max out anything of value, it can always be translated into money and fame. High-value men rank high in ethics. They are competitive but always remain ethical.
These men value equality of opportunity because they know they can perform based on their own track record.
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Recognized by other high-value peers
There’s no such thing as a high-value sigma male. Sigma males are these individuals who see themselves as lone wolves. That’s bullshit and we’ve experienced that ourselves. In our early 20s, we locked ourselves in and went full focus on building a life for ourselves.
It took roughly 7 years to get there and we saw ourselves as successful, only to realise that in the process we have become an island. So we started building bridges. The big shock was when we realised that all folks at the top of the pyramid were already hanging out with each other.
Discipline and hard work qualify you to be in the room, but you need to build relationships if you really want to reserve your seat at the table.
We don’t care if you think of yourself as a high-value man. The only way to really know is when other high-value men give you their stamp of approval and allow you to join their ranks.
Your value is determined by the people you surround yourself with! There’s a nobility to high value. Both peers and people below you recognize your efforts.
This is why most men can’t do it. You might get lucky once, but you will meet the same people you stepped on going up, on your way down.
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Has a valuable network
What it would take you 3 or 4 years to do on your own can be achieved in 6 months if you have a powerful network. Men at the top work in packs when it comes to tackling projects beyond one’s solo ability. They leverage each other’s relationships, infrastructure and knowledge to minimise risk. They trust each other to hold their word and put their money and actions where their mouth is.
That’s why the rich are getting richer because they’re working together to ensure it! That’s the thing: Poor people actually despise other poor people which stops them from collaborating. Because high-value men have built this valuable network around them, others will come to them trying to curry favour. At this point, it’s like a snowball rolling downhill. The more valuable your network is, the more high-value people will want to join it.
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Is an employer
High-value men are able to provide a livelihood to others. This means he is able to generate opportunity, structure and a way for others to take care of their own families. It’s not necessarily that you’re an entrepreneur. If you are high up on the corporate ladder you can exercise your power and provide opportunities to others. Although there’s an element of self-interest involved, the benefit brought to the other party ensures a position higher in the hierarchy.
High-value men are able to see opportunity when other people don’t. You earn money and status based on your ability to see into the future. Low-value men can barely see towards the end of the day or maybe the week. They usually live paycheck to paycheck. The average value men can see towards the end of the month or the quarter. They are usually middle management or higher valued employees. High-value men see opportunity in years and decades.
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Visible & Intriguing
You know who high-value men are. Everybody does. You might not know them, but you know of them. They are visible. They are around. They’re always doing something extraordinary which puts a spotlight on them. High-value men move differently. For everyone else this is intriguing. How is this person able to do so much consistently? The secret lies in the management of resources.
At the end of the day, you have the same number of hours in a day as they do, but are not managing them the same way. You recognize what they’ve built and what position they occupy in society. Others understand the title of their occupation. They’re not vaguely “entrepreneurs”, they’re the CEO of Tesla. You know what the function is and what the company is.
Their activity is transparent, legal and by the book. They are winning the game fair and square. Nobody can say otherwise. You can’t be a high-value man and be in jail. You can’t be a high-value man hustling people. There’s no honour among thieves and high-value man value trust and reputation as you’ll learn later today.
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can afford to walk away
This right here is the most powerful piece of information you will need in your life and the reason why so many people subscribe to our channel. The person who can afford to walk away has all the power! If you’re in a business negotiation, the one who can walk away from the deal because they can make it somewhere else on their own terms has all the power.
If you’re dating someone who’s playing games and you can walk away, you have all the power. Others will notice and they will put you on a pedestal because real power is rare. The more valuable the thing you are willing to walk away from, the more powerful you are perceived.
This is why you can’t put a high-value man in a friendzone. While every other man is chasing women, high-value men attract women through their status and they always have options. Games are for children, high value men don’t play them because they can afford to walk away.
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Have coaches keep him at top performance
High-value men never stop learning. They never stop climbing. For them, the climb is a thrill. In order to do so, high-value men leverage the experience of others to get things done quicker. You will never meet a high-value man who doesn’t read. Who doesn’t hang out with other successful people in order to learn from them?
High-value men pay performance coaches to make sure they operate at the highest level. These coaches are there to make sure the mindset is right and the objective is clear on a consistent basis. Pick any hedge-fund manager and you’ll see they’re paying over $100,000 per year to a high-performance coach just to make sure they don’t slip. But someone like you can’t afford that. We’ve learned from them and wanted to make sure this luxury is available to everyone, so we paid these coaches on your behalf so you can access them through the Alux app at $14.99 per month.
Go to alux.com/app right now and download our app. It’s gonna be a game-changer for you. The 10 minutes per day sessions will slowly build you up. Your income should increase, your stress should lower and you will bring order to the chaos of your life. Ready to be more than what you are right now? Get the Alux app!
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Master of probability, not luck
Low-value men operate in luck. High-value men operate in probability. How likely something is to happen if these are the inputs? People look at them as risk takes, but that’s actually the opposite of what they do. High-value men look at THE SETUP. How a situation is put together and how it will impact the results.
Then based on the expertise they slowly shift the odds in their favour and they do that consistently. If your odds of success are over 50% then it makes sense to run the experiment for as long as possible, because you will inevitably win. That’s why high-value men have built infrastructure around them. These men have lawyers, accountants, and financial advisors. They have a diversified portfolio of assets. All minimize risk and increase return.
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he’s not an “almost”
So many people are “almost” in their results. And you see it all the time when people say: but I really tried. Or I put in a lot of effort. High-value men only value end results. It doesn’t matter how hard you tried, that’s something reserved for little league baseball, not for adults.
They take full ownership of everything that happens in their life. If something goes wrong, they aren’t ready or smart enough to see it coming, so there’s still room for improvement.
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Life has to keep going up
Men derive value from growth. A man that’s not growing is a man that’s just waiting to die. Growth for men comes in many ways: professional, physical, emotional, spiritual, and intellectual. A man whose value is going down is seen as a liability, not an asset. High-value men don’t go through a midlife crisis because their life is full.
If a high-value man were to die today, he would know that he has lived a fulfilling life and that he made the most out of it. Growth and fulfilment come from the way you live your life. You might be the person with the most money in the bank account, but you still lose if you haven’t lived at all. Most men live lives of quiet desperation! They hope that one day something will happen where they will be able to live for themselves.
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Able, Confident & Assertive
When a high-value man walks into a room, everybody knows it. He’s confident in his ability because he has proven it in the past and knows he can do it again. These are not the peacock men you see these days masquerading as high value. They have true value based on who they have become.
High-value men are assertive. They let the world know what he wants and what he’s going after. High-value men have no problem competing and making it clear they are a dominant force. These men aren’t necessarily the strongest, but they are the most capable.
These men are adaptive. Take everything away from them and they will still be able to get it all back because they didn’t get lucky. Because you can’t take away who they are and what they know. It will take them substantially less this time around because now they know what to do and know how to do it.
High-value men are high value no matter where they are in the world. Self-confidence and assertiveness are both things that one can learn. Every month we develop a new learning pack available in the Alux app to those who have an active subscription or that you can purchase. This month’s pack is about self-confidence and what it takes to master it and it’s going live today… This is why we keep telling you about the app. It will blow you away just how much value there’s in it.
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Reputation and Legacy
Reputation is the most valuable thing a man can build from a status perspective. Children are the most valuable thing a man can have from a legacy perspective. Both of them are of extreme importance to high-value men. They know their reputation needs to be protected at all costs.
That’s why you don’t see high-value men with low-value women, at least not in public – if you know what I mean. Men are status-driven. So the partner they choose to be with should increase his status. You can tell a lot about a person based on who they chose to build a life and a family. If you watched our high-value woman video, you know what a high-value man looks like in a partner and we guarantee it is different than what you’d expect.
Because high-value men are focused on perpetual growth and can provide an incredible lifestyle for the family, it’s important that their legacy be carefully looked after. A high-value man is a present father, but because of the situation, he’s responsible for more than the household.
That’s why the partner needs to be able to raise exceptional children. The two forms of legacy a man leaves behind are his children and his work. High-value men understand that time is finite and he wants something to live beyond them. You are the result of thousands of years of evolution and bloodline overcoming incredible adversity. Although one can choose not to have children and still make an impact on the world, it’s a shame to allow your bloodline to die.
Actually, let’s end it here. Next Sunday we’re gonna do a final video on what it means to be a high-value couple and then we’ll wrap this series up. It’s time you guys joined the conversation: What else makes a high-value man? We know you’re smart, so go ahead and contribute. As for those of you still watching, here’s your well-deserved bonus!
Bonus: A clown is a clown even if you put him on the throne.
We’ve noticed a rise in the interest in men-centred content which is why we decided to make this entire series. The irony is, you don’t become a high-value man by talking down to women and making your money off the recordings. In the same way, you’ve not considered a success if you get rich by teaching others how to get rich. It doesn’t work that way.
We made the first million before speaking about money. Most of these men are pretenders actually keeping the entire process back. It’s the same here: become high value first and then talk about it and do so from a statistical perspective where you throw in personal experience. The problem we see with this content is that although it is portrayed as self-help, it actually isn’t in many cases.
Most of the content produced on the topic is entertainment only and we take a problem with that because it’s not benefiting the listener. A cold shower is welcome only if the path to improvement is available by it. That’s why we did the duality of these videos, both low value and high value to reflect both ends of the spectrum. In reality, most people watching this video will fall somewhere in the middle, but at least now you know what not to do and what to aspire to do.
High-value men don’t talk about themselves as pimps. So high-value men don’t need to be loud. High-value men aren’t trying to win, because they’ve already won. For as long as you live remember this: The rich man in the room doesn’t have to tell you that he’s rich! The problem lies when at the helm of the conversation we have people who don’t fit the job description.
Put a clown on a throne and the entire kingdom becomes a circus! And we feel like this is happening in this space right now. There’s some foundation of truth but not everything that glitters is gold. If you agree with this take on high-value men write the word: GOLD in the comments. That way we differentiate from everything else that only glitters.
