All Women Are Amazing, but Some Are Truly Exceptional. Find Out Some Traits of a High Value Woman.
Welcome back Aluxers. What is a high-value woman?
Simply put:
She’s a trend-setter, without trying.
She’s not afraid to be herself.
She’s an Aluxer.
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Reading may be considered higher in value than watching a video but it takes up a lot more time and is quite boring. So switch over to the quick little video version of this article.
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With that out of the way, let’s get straight into the article.
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A High-Value Woman Knows Her Worth
Aluxers, there is a beautiful quote which says, “Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.” It perfectly surmises what a high-value woman is all about.
She does not allow herself to become a doormat for the emotions of others. She doesn’t let people walk all over her. She doesn’t give them the time or energy to wipe their dirty feet on her and she definitely doesn’t allow sh*t to trap itself on her waiting for someone else to clean it up.
A high-value woman knows what she is worth, even if you don’t.
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She’s High-Value For Herself, and Not for Anyone Else
Ever tried to make a change for the benefit of someone else? Pretty difficult, isn’t it? However, when you decide to make a change for yourself, it’s often easier to maintain in the long-run… Ah, and bonus, you feel even more proud of yourself – as you should.
A high-value woman doesn’t base her decisions on what other people think about her. She lives her life the way she wants to – with good morals, high values, and kindness – always.
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She Leads by Example
A high-value woman isn’t one to go around telling people how they should and shouldn’t behave. She’s not about that life. What she is about, is leading by example. We just mentioned that she has good morals, high values and demonstrates kindness… and by living her life like this all the time, inspires others to better themselves.
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She Never Stops Learning
No high-value woman will ever pretend that they know it all. They are open to new teachings, learning new ideas, concepts, thoughts, ideologies.
Decisions are never tunnel-based. They’re based on a plethora of knowledge from many angles. If you go to a high-value woman for advice, you can be guaranteed that she’s dispensing it from a place of love, kindness, respect and thought.
She’s curious and fascinated by the world around her. She asks questions. She respects the teacher and passes on her findings. She doesn’t keep the value and knowledge to herself, but rather shares it to watch others grow and thrive too… which brings us to our next point.
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She Knows How To Lift Others Up
Every high-value woman knows that her role is to help others rise. Like one high-value woman, Maya Angelou, once said – “If you get, give. If you learn, teach.”
High-value women know that they are not successful alone, and that other’s successes are also cause for celebration. She doesn’t feel jealous or insecure when others do well and shares their wins as if they were her own.
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She Treats Everyone as Equals
A high-value woman knows that everyone is equal, whether they’re a waiter, cleaner, or CEO of a company. It doesn’t matter to her. She will always greet that person and look them in the eyes when saying Hello.
She has no need to come across as superior to anyone else. She understands that everyone has walked a journey, and that they can never be judged until A: you’ve walked a mile in their shoes, or B: You’ve taken the log out of your own eye before removing the speck from another’s.
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She Stands up for the Vulnerable
Hilary Clinton once said, “Let’s continue to stand up for those who are vulnerable to being left out or marginalized.”
And that right there Aluxers, is what we’re referring to. You’ll know who the high-value women are… they’re the ones standing up and giving a voice to the voiceless, making sure the vulnerable or marginalized are heard, seen and accounted for.
And often, she’s standing alone initially – because she is fearless, but her enigmatic approach will soon have an army of supporters standing beside her.
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A High-Value Woman Knows She Is Not Entitled to Anything
The world does not owe her anything. As the Feminine Women writes:
“Men don’t owe you anything.
Women don’t owe men anything.”
High value women ensure their value is earned, not handed over on a silver platter. And if the high-value woman does receive generously, she also gives generously.
Nothing is expected.
Things are received with grace.
And a giving, philanthropic nature is part of her make-up.
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She Speaks up for Herself
Suppressing her thoughts is not something a high-value woman does. She speaks what is on her mind and has no problem in expressing her thoughts and feelings.
She’s well aware that not everyone will like what she has to say, but she speaks with such diplomacy, that they easily share her point of view.
She’s authentic, honest and tactful. She knows what her boundaries are and is not afraid to say no.
Remember what we said in our video, 15 Life Hacks For The MODERN LADY, the modern lady is a woman who has her sh*t together and Aluxers, that includes learning how to speak up for yourself… because nobody else is going to do it for you.
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A High-Value Woman Never Flaunts Her Wealth
In fact, a high value woman doesn’t even need a big bank balance to be high value. Because it isn’t about the money when it comes to value.
However, should she be wealthy, it wouldn’t be something that you’d be reminded of. It’s stashed not flashed.
And don’t get us wrong, she enjoys her wealth, but it’s done in an understated, graceful manner.
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She Has Etiquette and Manners
Aluxers, we’re tying this one up with our video 15 Traits of the Superior Man, where we mentioned the same point.
We reiterate what we said there because it applies to both the superior man and the high value woman.
Being polite today means you’re being fake. Manners don’t matter, because manners don’t serve you, the number 1 most important person in the world.
Manners and Etiquette aren’t about you, it’s about everybody else.
There’s a grace to going through life and the superior man understands this grace.
The wine tastes different when drunk from a wine glass rather than a cup.
Society is calmer when we treat our elders with respect, not because of their age, but because of how much of what life is, they have in them.
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She Takes Responsibility
And here Aluxers, we mean in every sphere possible.
She takes care of her family – they are always her priority.
She ensures her loved ones’ needs are looked after.
She is held accountable for her mistakes.
She says sorry.
She shows up.
New York Times bestselling author, Sharon Salzberg, aptly puts it like this, “Taking responsibility for oneself is by definition an act of kindness.”
But how does a high-value woman do this? Let’s find out.
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She Takes Care of Herself
You know when you board a plane, and the flight attendants tell you to put your own mask on first before assisting others. Because, what good are you going to be in helping others when you’re passed out on the aisle of the plane?
It’s the same for a high-value woman. She needs to ensure her own well being is looked after, and we’re not just speaking about the aesthetics – although they are also important and add value to her.
We’re taking into account her mental, emotional, and physical health. These are all part of what makes a woman high – value.
If you are also interested in self care and want to read up more about it, check out 15 Ways to Invest in Yourself.
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She Doesn’t Settle for Second Best
Some might label her picky, or difficult, but those descriptions don’t worry a high-value woman. They roll off her like water off a duck. She would much rather wait for the right partner than settle for an inferior version to alleviate the loneliness.
Not only does she look after her own best interests by doing this, but she also doesn’t waste a potential partners time and energy, knowing that they’re not quite the right match.
Aluxers, coming up shortly – we’ll tell you how you can become a high-value woman yourself.
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A High-Value Woman Is Present
The beauty about meeting a high-value woman, is that when you converse with her, she’s 100% focused on what you’re saying.
She’s never reaching for her phone, interrupting you or making you feel like you’re wasting her time. She’s right there, in the thick of the conversation, listening with intent.
Even Mother Teresa knew the importance of being in the moment. “Be happy in the moment, that’s enough. Each moment is all we need, not more.”
Question:
Aluxers, what do you believe we can add to this list of signs of a high-value woman? We value your input a great deal.
